Speak For Yourself

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Speak For Yourself

If I ever have a daughter, there one thing I want her to know - and that is don't play the fool.
Don't be too nice either, laughing it off and saying "It's all cool".
Don't sit there quiet and sweet because people expect it of you.
Speak for yourself, honey.
Don't let somebody else say your words for you!

Say sorry when you do wrong and no other time, regardless of what is said and done everybody believes they're in the right.

You're not wrong because you're young, but if you act like you don't have a clue - they'll listen to anyone who isn't you.

Speak for yourself.
They don't see what you see, they say only what they know. 

- By S.J Elizabeth



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