Soul Ties and Chains
For the last month, I have been thinking about soul ties and after four hours worth of YouTube - I was left with two questions. What made my soul choose to have these people in my life? What made their souls choose to have me in theirs? These two questions drove me crazy for a little bit because I over-analyse things to bits and then I realised that at that time and place, the people who have come and gone out of my life, by their choice or mine, that my soul chose them because at the time it resonated with something in them and there were lessons I needed to learn and conversations I needed to have. Sometimes the hardest lessons in life are taught to us by the people we love, what the hurt teaches us from those lessons is how we will love ourselves and other people better. When I see things in these relationships begin to unravel and I know the end is nigh, I always ask God. "Why did it have to be this person to teach me this lesson? Couldn't I have learnt this lesson